What Girls Really Want???

One of my best friends… Rimit… asked me this question yesterday and wanted me to write something about this. So, this post is for him:) To tell you the truth, I have also never been able to find out the answer of this!!! I am also a big dumbo like you to talk about this topic. There's no magical answer that's going to tell you exactly what a girl wants. Every girl is unique and different from others. Some grow up in pink dresses. Some grow up in ratty jeans. Some love horses, some love nail polish. They are so confusing that even the forces which created them don’t know themselves what they really wanted to create and what actually got created!!! She can drive you crazy for what she wants. May be a girl herself doesn’t know the answer and that’s why likes to confuse us so much.

Trust me guys, a real girl is extremely difficult to tackle with. She never lets you know her ways which keeps you under control. You can never judge her mood by the way she talks. Girls are like a massive sea of emotions. While they can give you the calmest and most peaceful experience, they can also brew the fiercest of storms sinking every guy’s ship that crosses their path. If she looks sad that means it’s a time for you to face that situation with a great courage!!! If she sounds happy, then even you are in trouble!!! Your most difficult time comes when she gets angry because of something because that time you become the biggest victim to face that volcano of anger, no matter, what the real reason of that anger actually is. As you hang up the phone after talking to your girl friend who has gone from being super nice to super naughty and back to super nice just in a matter of 10 minutes, you wonder and asks yourself who is this multi headed monster you are dating with!!! She makes you to go through all kinds of feelings in a single phone call. One minute she tells you how happy she feels being with you, the next second she makes you feel that how happy she is when you are away from her. She thinks of you the most when alone and you are of no importance when she is along with her friends!!! They are the biggest mind readers and can catch all your lies very easily. To cry is their biggest blackmail which no guy can save him from. They never give you the straightforward answers. Even if they have to answer the simplest ones, they take it as their insult to answer simply in ‘yes’ or ‘no’!!! Whenever you know that something has gone wrong and you want to ask about that, the answer always comes as “nothing” which means she is lying. The truth is that she wants you to ask the same question at least a 1000 times before telling you the truth. She thinks that she knows the best solution of every problem and wants your suggestion just to make a fun of you!!! They are strong, tough and patient. I know girls who work 20 hours a day and after only 4 hours of sleep, they get ready to work for another 20 hours!!! Even after that they look so fresh and enthusiastic. They can talk for hours and never get tired of talking on phone. If you care for her, she gets irritated. If you show no care at all then you get the adjective of being mean and selfish!!!

But still here are some important points which you can keep in your mind. They don’t care even if you are the strongest guy in the world. So never try to show off and be down to earth. Don’t try to be mean to get their attention. Cursing and fighting never impress them so don’t ever try to dominate your girl friend if you really care about her. They love surprises a lot. The little things you do mean the most to them. They can easily catch when you don’t listen to them so try to be a good listener. They need your advice sometimes so don’t be afraid to give your precious ideas to them. If she is upset because of anything, try to make her smile as much as possible. No need to hide your secrets in true love so never lies in front of her. Never cheat on her or break her heart. Never pretend to love her always but tell her exactly how you feel about everything. Don’t ever force her to do anything which she doesn’t want to do. Respect her feelings. Make it a habit to apologize to her even if it’s not your fault. That doesn’t make you to loose your self respect. Love her the way she is and never force her to get change for you. And if you really need some good advice then go and ask about these things to an expert or an experienced person as I am not at all good in these kinds of things!!!

But I can tell you about one thing. If a girl truly loves you, she can make you feel like in heaven. If you give her a house, she makes it a home. If you give her a smile, she gives you her heart. She can make you come out of your most difficult times by her magic. She can be your biggest courage and strength to fight with your difficulties. So if you have someone who really loves you a lot, then take care of her because if she knows how to love, then she also knows how to make you pay for that!!!