Sometimes, I Like To Walk Alone in the Darkness...

Sometimes, it’s really good to think about your life, people you love, mistakes you have committed in your past and a mixture of good and bad memories you have and the best time to do that is when you are completely alone!!! You can concentrate to understand the reasons behind your existence only when you understand the importance of giving some time to yourself also. Sometimes, it’s good to walk alone in the dark, fighting with your own thoughts and fears, thinking about those questions of your life which are still being unanswered. It’s the best time to cry for that pain you never deserved to have. It would make you feel the importance of yourself and the life you have been gifted with.

Being alone for sometime doesn’t mean that you are becoming a psycho or some mental disorder is getting developed inside you. Try to live a life of optimism when you are being alone and start to learn the ways which can make your life better. Always remember!!! A person is the best teacher of his own. It is one of the most important tools you require for self building. Think about the qualities you have which make you different and more important than others and the drawbacks of your personality which are creating a hindrance for you to achieve success. It is a great way to improve your thinking and reasoning skills as well. Try to rediscover the fun of your life which has been lost somewhere in the ashes of past. You will find that all of a sudden, you have started to get familiar with the things you love and enjoy. Listen to the best music, thinking about your dreams in your free time when nobody can disturb you. Read your favorite books. Feel the magic of that unknown feeling which you have never observed before. Leave your mind free for sometime and let the world of your dreams go in any direction it want to. It would make you feel calm and give you some relief from your busy lifestyle.

When I was searching for this little bit more, I came to know that out of the four main types of personalities, Expressive and Amiable likes people. Expressive loves to be social and can't live without people. Amiable loves people but don't mind giving some time to themselves too. Analytical personalities on the other hand like to spend majority of their time being alone and thinking about their own. It’s not advisable to have extreme of anything. If you would attain the personality of being expressive you would not be able to give enough time to yourself. On the other hand you would not be able to interact with others if you try to be analytic which will take you into the depression. Rather, I would suggest you to become an amiable kind of person who knows how to have balance between both the sides of your personality. Be social but keep some time for yourself too. Being sensitive is good but being over sensitive would not give you anything except unnecessary pain and suffering.

Life is a race. Everybody is running for success. Lifestyle has become fast and while competing with others, you also have become a part of that race, doesn’t matter, whether you wanted to be a part of that or not. Days and nights have become shorter than before and it has become really difficult to get some time for your own so you should know how to utilize that time in the best possible way when you connect yourself to the divine and it can produce such good results for you which would be far beyond the limit of your imagination and expectations!!!