When Tears Become Your Power!!!

on Monday, March 15, 2010


I read it somewhere that life does not listen to your logic, you have to listen to the logic of life. We all make every possible effort to make things better but even after that sometimes we fell into a situation when all our hopes vanish and we feel so much defeated and disgraced that we feel to cry. Our heart suffers from that intolerable pain in those times which brings tears in our eyes. We don’t want anybody else to see those tears and conditions get worsen. In those difficult times, life becomes a hell and situations become so hectic to handle that we feel like to run away from everything. But if you stop to think about your sorrows for a few moments and try to see the other side of it, you will find that these tears of your eyes can also be the biggest strength of yours if you want. Strength – which nothing else can ever provide you!!! You can convert your emotions into that real power of yours which can take you to a new height of success which you can’t even dream about.

When we look at the past, we find that most of the great people whom we admire today had also gone through so many difficult problems in their lives. They did not become great just in a day, but have worked really hard for that. They did not loose their hope even after many defeats in their life and tried again and again to get succeed. There are so many wonderful success stories where people create the world of their dreams on their own without any support. Do you know how other people with disabilities overcome their personal challenges and achieve career success??? The greatest footballer, Edison Arantes do Nascimento (Pele), was so poor in his childhood that he did not have money even to buy a football for him. He practiced with the football made of cloth and became the greatest footballer of the world!!! Lal Bahadur Shastri, another big legend, was born in a very poor family. His father died when he was only one and a half years old. Growing up without a father forced him to accept the responsibility at an early age. He worked hard, got our country freed from the clutches of the British government and later became the second prime minister of independent India. There is one more name who achieved that impossible success in her life which no one can even think about. She was an American author, political activist and lecturer. She was the first deaf and blind person to earn a Bachelor of Arts degree. Yes!!! I am talking about Helen Keller who became very ill when she was only 19 months old. However, she was able to survive somehow but the disease left her deaf and dumb. She decided to fight with her disabilities and became one of the greatest legends of History. You can find unlimited number of these kinds of success stories where people did not let their tears become a waste. These tears are necessary for us to become more mature and to find better ways of fighting with our problems.

It’s no secret that humans are creatures of habit. We find it easier to do the same thing over and over again before we’ll make a change in our lives. Try to understand the power of your tears. Don’t let them flow just like that. You need never be ashamed of your tears. It’s like a rain upon the blinding dust of our emotions overlying your hard hearts. Even psychologists encourage people to let them flow freely, unobstructed by any sensors that may shut them off. The research on psychoactive substances in tears is under way. There is a reason to believe that tears may be important in the maintenance of physical health and emotional balance. Life is a never ending vacation. It’s a long journey with several ups and downs. So whenever you cry, the best thing is to let your tears flow freely, face the reality, stop cursing others, convert the power of your tears into your greatest strength and shout with confidence!!! “Is their any other problem which has still been left to fight with me??? If yes, then come up and show me how strong you are??? Show me your real face. This time…I have got the biggest weapon, the power of my tears with me, which will encourage me till the time; I would not win against you!!!”

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